Those words sealed the deal for the guy I met last night. He pulled up beside me at a stop light after our 4 hour long coffee date ended, made a sign for me to roll down my window and uttered those words. I laughed so freaking hard. It’s something so simple and dorky but I loved it!
So, a little about this guy. We corresponded on fet a few months ago then I put the kabosh on it because I just wasn’t feeling it. But I came around and asked him if he wanted to meet. He’s my age and is technically a switch but a lot more submissive than dominant.
The poor guy started out with one strike against him before we even arrived at the coffee shop. I was driving along and was ready to change lanes but the douche in the left lane wouldn’t speed up so I could move over. Because I have slight road rage tendencies I yelled “Hurry the fuck up!” to myself and as he passed me (not because he sped up but because I slowed down) I realized that could very well be the guy I was about to meet. It was. Then, within the first 5 seconds he had another strike against him (not that I really held the driving against him)! We shook hands and he said “It’s a pleasure to finally meet you” as he pulled my hand up to kiss it. 1) I’m not into traditional chivalry like that. 2) I’M NOT INTO PDA!
We chatted at the coffee shop for awhile then walked aimlessly around the bookstore for a while. At this point I was thinking I probably wasn’t going to see him again. When I would tell a story, he wouldn’t really listen to me but would go off on some semi-related story as soon as I was done talking. He seemed a lot more into me than I was into him. And, there were a few other things I wasn’t impressed it. Then we went out to his car so he could have a smoke. Nothing major happened in the car but he was far more relaxed and thus I was able to see a different side of him. A side I really like. He opened up about challenging things from his life, wasn’t judgmental of anything crazy I said and made me laugh. There really is a lot more to tell about our conversations in the car but I want to get to the good stuff.
After having to pee like no other for 2 hours, I finally ended the date. He went to his place, about a half hour away, and I went to mine. But I didn’t want the night to end. I couldn’t sleep to save my life. Eventually I talked him into coming back into town to my place – it was 1 a.m. before he arrived at my place. We messed around a little and he was actually more dominant than I was. I think that is going to complicate things – there not being a clear person in charge. I have been feeling more submissive lately so I’m hoping my dominant streak just comes back soon. But as I said, he was more dominant and I loved it. He spanked me like no other and bit my ass. I’ve only played rough as a sub a couple times but no marks were left. There were marks today! My ass is still sore. That’s no biggie for many of you but it’s a milestone for me!
I got no more than an hour of sleep last night. When we did finally stop playing, I just couldn’t sleep. Plus, my bed is broken so we were at a slant which made things more difficult. And I’m not used to sleeping with anyone. And he snored. I FINALLY fell asleep at some point and I feel a little poke between my ass cheeks. The guy was trying to take my ass! I laid there and pretended to be asleep until he really started to penetrate then I started moaning because it did feel surprisingly good. It is so fucking hot to me that he woke up, wanted some so just took it. HOT! HOT! HOT!
This morning before he left he gave me some fancy-shmancy hot chocolate that he had told me about earlier. I thought that was the sweetest thing. It’s nothing big but it’s thoughtful and I’ve always been the type that likes the little, simple things more. There’s so many more things I could and want to share and I will soon. The words for those things just aren’t coming at the moment.
I’m excited about this one 
